21 year old dating a 31 year old
She interdused er self as a normal person untill a night we decided to break up to gether because i refused to interdused er to my mom,she tell me her realy story and thr things he does, she had got married and she has a 6 years doughter but now she live with her friend in a house, she was a *****, even when he was with her husband, her husband knew that because this job had realy good money and their age as a young couple, she explained how she get in this job and why she did that, and she got some mental problem because of her separation and losing some of her benefits in her life, but because i loved her i decided to stay with her and work on her very hard untill she stop that job and she back to her normal life, even i all the time to stay with her and give her some hope to stay as a person in this society and she's medical term are going to finish. I'm in the same position, Im a 20 year old guy, and my girlfriend she 31 years old, if you are ready and know what you tell her, what in your mind and she will help you out, and that just makes her feel more special because she knows now that you really want to be with her and your doing everything to be with her. It also helps that he is intelligent and has a calmer disposition against my more tumultuous moods The relationship didn't work out not due to the age factor but because of our differences in personality (the irony that it was the one that attracted us in the beginning) and sadly, lack of communication.
Hey all I am 31 years old, I had been dating a 21 year old for a few months, at first he and I were friends(I had an immediate connection with him) for like 6 months, then I broke up with the 34 year old guy I was with, and he and I started hanging out. In addition, men mature slower than women (no offense men, just a fact of life) ..
I told him this could not be serious we could just explore, but 2 months into it he asked me to be with him, and I said I had to really think about it.....3 months into it my feelings have grown for him.... Why did you break up with him if you were in love with him? I'm in the exact same boat, 31 & falling for a 21 year old who seems more mature than most men I've met, I'm an independent successful woman that never thought I'd be in this situation, most men are intimidated by my strong personality and independence, but this 21 year old makes me feel intimidated like He breaks my guards and makes me feel like he has some overpowering connection that I can't explain. She some time confused because she say it is nor right i say with you, you need to find some on in your age.
I returned to college to take some suplimentary courses and found many girls of 18,19,20 following me around like puppies in love. That having endless notches on the bed post just leaves you far more empty than fullfilled. I also believe that having children younger for women is far better in many respects.i gots differant brains now then i hads when i was on my 20s.. I prefer men who are 2 - 4 years younger than I am (though I have dipped drastically below that, and felt ever so cougarish), just because I usually have more fun with them.
Some of these girls were deadly physically speaking. If I can find someone my age or older that I have interests in common with, then great.