Dating to soon after divorce
If you are on the fence about whether or not it is too soon for you and/or your date to date after divorce, I suggest taking time to figure out what’s best for you and/or to take dating after divorce slowly so you can see how you feel while on/with a date.
There are some advantages to being on your own – advantages like getting up to pee in the middle of the night and not falling in the toilet because no one has left the seat up.If you are asking whether or not it’s too soon to date after divorce the answer probably is, “Yes, it’s too soon to date after divorce.” But how can you know for sure?Here are some tip-offs that tell me you and/or your date are not ready to date after divorce.I think it’s important to take time to heal from divorce.People need time to adjust to the major changes that divorce brings: different living situations, moving, financial struggles, and having to share time with your kids. It’s the death of your hopes, dreams, and beliefs that you will spend the rest of your life with your spouse. It’s wise to wait a year or so, so that you can evaluate your life, take inventory of who you are, change the things about you that you don’t like, and discover what exactly you’re looking for in a partner.